12/17/2023 0 Comments Radio silence vs no contactBut almost as if my love life was rigged with an alarm, the second I was happy and moving on, Mr. He was nice and normal and stable and so, so sweet. He just kind of plopped into my life and he was wonderful. And in an unexpected twist, I started dating someone new. I felt free and like a huge weight has been lifted. The beginning was tough, but soon enough I started to feel really good, I started feeling almost like myself again. Three weeks?! That’s like an eternity! I felt like I physically wouldn’t be able to function without him in my life, I didn’t know how I would survive. He suggested we go through a period of three weeks of no contact. Many moons back, I was entangled in a toxic relationship … and was devastated when my toxic partner broke up with me, although I could clearly see that it wasn’t working. You may find you get excited about the prospect of dating someone new… of being in a healthier relationship.Īnd I just want to share a quick cautionary tale. Even if you don’t actually pursue anything, you will be better able to see what’s out there. When he’s out of the picture, you open up space for someone else to step in. You might not be ready to date at this moment, but you’ll be better able to see opportunities when your ex isn’t blocking your view. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.” – Mandy Hale Reasons Why the No Contact Rule Always Works: 1.Gives You Space to Detox Now that we’ve discussed why you need to do it, let’s talk about exactly why it works. (For a more in-depth discussion on the no contact rule, make sure to read this article: Everything You Need to Know About the No Contact Rule) No stalking his social accounts (OK, this technically isn’t making “contact” but it’s just as self-sabotaging, so we’ll throw that in).
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